How to Make a Man Bond with You After Sex

This one’s for the ladies, courtesy of oxytocin expert Susan Kuchinskas:

Because vasopressin, a neurochemical of attention and defense, also seems to be more involved in male mating, men are likely to feel more bonded if they’re already invested in the relationship in some way, if they need to defend the woman from danger or there’s just a lot of other kinds of excitement involved.

The perfect date to get a man to bond during sex: The car gets stuck in the mud on the way to your bungie jumping. He gets it out, both of you bungie, she’s a little scared afterward. Just a little…

Men, keep this in mind the next time she invites you out for a little out-of-town bungie jumping.

And for the gays, I could speculate on your perfect date using some easy stereotypical punchlines and oh how we’d all laugh, but I’m more curious to know what the neurochemical bonding action is when you guys do the dew. A 2004 paper about heterosexual bonding briefly mentioned the same curiosity, but I can’t find any proper research on it.

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